"In reality there is perhaps not one of our natural passions so hard to subdue as pride. Disguise it, struggle with it, beat it down, stifle it, mortify it as much as one pleases, it is still alive, and will every now and then peep out and show itself...For even if I could conceive that I had completely overcome it, I should probably be proud of my humility." - Benjamin Franklin
Our society emphasizes individuality and competition, often at the expense of the virtue of humility. However, humility is an important strength. Although not exclusively rooted in religion, many traditions teach us to develop humility, which is good. Even if you are not religious, humility can help you develop as a person and assist you in all walks of life.
It’s important to distinguish between self-esteem and pride, and their respective sources. You can feel good about yourself and be humble. A high self-esteem comes from appreciating and recognizing your talents. However, when you parade your talents in an arrogant way, this is rooted in insecurity about yourself. Be thankful for your abilities, but never flaunt them. Simply accept yourself as you are, and always be honest with yourself.
Understanding your limitations is another important realization to make. There will always be someone more intelligent or talented who can do something better than you. Instead of allowing this realization to depress you, consider other’s achievements as your own potential for improvement. Recognizing your limits does not mean giving up on your dreams, nor does it suggest you should stop learning new things.
Lastly, take the opportunity to help others. A big part of being humble is respecting others, and part of respecting others is helping them. Remember the Golden Rule--treat others as well as you would like to be treated. I believe that when you help others who cannot possibly help you in return, you have learned humility.
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